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'Underground Girls of Kabul' by Jenny Nordberg // #bookreview

3/5/2015

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Jenny Nordberg is an insightful writer and I am so glad that she wrote this book. 'Bacha posh' is a name given to Afghan children that are born female and then raised as boys. Nordberg's incredibly commitment to these stories is quite remarkable, she fully immersed herself. Reading about the bacha posh has given me more insight into Afghanistan's culture than I really ever intended to gain, but now that I have it I feel blessed. It's less about gender and more about power. I can not wait to use this insight in conversations with blissful ignoramus. 

When I picked this book up at Barnes and Noble I didn't really pay much attention, adding it to the pile of novels that I would soon devour. I just thought it would be a story about girls in Kabul doing underground resistance work against the Taliban or something. In a sense that is exactly what these girls are doing but within a totally different cultural context which changes the actions of these ladies from being conscious activism to societal survival.

I grew particularly attached to a woman named Azita, who went from well educated young woman to the wife of an illiterate man, and eventually finds her power. This amazing woman's story frames the book from beginning to end. Azita's journey was not something she always had control over but she has done her best to do the most with what she has. There is no closure in this story, no happy ending but Azita's life serves as the skeleton that carries the rest of the book through it's twists and turns.
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I read this book in the bath, at work, on break, in bed, at every spare moment I that I could dedicate to these stories of situations so unfamiliar to my own. My understanding grew and grew and my knowledge bank about the subject feels like a kind of empowerment. I now follow Nordberg on Twitter, even though a lot of it is in Swedish! hah.



People have a lot of opinions about the Muslim religion and whether or not it responsible for terrorism. And I AM NO EXPERT but I have to say that after reading the Underground Girls of Kabul, after reading 'I Am Malala' and after reading 'Do They Hear You Cry' I am fairly certain that the terrorism and hatred comes from illiterate religious leaders, driven by tradition, that are interpreting what "good Muslims" are supposed to act, look like, do with the interest of war lords and anti government groups in mind. These ideas and instructions are not based on the words of the Koran but instead a collection of tradition, societal norms and pieces of other ancient religions.

"Behind every discreetly ambitious young Afghan woman with budding plans to take on the world, there is an interesting father. And in every successful grown woman who has managed to break new ground and do something women usually do not, there is a determined father, who is redefining honor and society by promoting his daughter."
These words brought me back to a few weeks ago when I was finishing 'I Am Malala,' and I was realizing how utterly progressive her father was, how lucky Malala was to be born to these parents who watered her ambitions with love and support. I am so glad to know that more men like Ziauddin Yousafzai out there, men like my own father, men from vast circumstances, men that are looking beyond themselves, looking at their daughters and they are doing things differently, changing the rules and changing the world. 
".. The idea of honor can be redefined by men to other men. What is honorable is not to beat a woman, to sell her or to take another wife; it is to have an educated daughter."
I think of all the girls, all the bacha posh, that I met during this literary adventure with fondness and send them love as well as light. Without their knowledge I consider them friends and I hope that all of their wishes are granted because steps towards gender equality in the Middle East are painstakingly slow

I finished this book a year, to the month, after Nordberg wrote it. And my hope is that I can encourage a few more people to read it, to expand the knowledge people outside of the Middle East have about Afghanistan and to inform a few more men about what sexism looks like in third world countries. 

xoxo, kp 
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The Film // She's Beautiful When She's Angry

3/4/2015

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On Monday afternoon I saw the brilliant documentary 'She's Beautiful When She's Angry.' I have been reading about this documentary online for a while but I must give credit to my male-lover TK who cut out an ad from The Lagoon, he put it on our dresser so we wouldn't forget to go see it. 
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The Trailer // 

The content of this documentary is very vast, very informative, full of times lines and dirty details. As some of you may know I am an avid reader, and I have done a good job educating myself about the women's rights movement because the lord knows they didn't teach any of it at my Catholic High school. So the content of 'She's Angry' was not new to me. But what I enjoyed the most about the movie was the personal accounts, the faces behind the issue, the women's stories. These women are strong, they are fierce, these women changed the world. And they have so much to teach the younger generations and the uneducated. 


I fear that the only people going to the theater to see this are the people who lived it, the people who went to school to study it, the people who already know and acknowledge the struggle. So if you don't know anything about the fight for women's reproductive health, or if you haven't learned of the different organizations, if you don't know about the 'Feminine Mystique', go see this movie! 

PLEASE GO SEE THIS MOVIE, take your nieces and nephews, take the kids you baby sit, encourage your friends, buy the movie and show it to your class. Make sure people see this movie. 


xoxo, kp

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    I am on a journey to be the most amazing version of myself that I can be. I always try to do what is right for myself, my planet, my body & my spirit. Living a full life to me means lots of traveling, outdoor adventures, constantly busy, obsessively learning, tons of time surrounded by friends, family and fashion.

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